A Closeted Goth Girl Trying to Make it in the Professional World

Tuesday, May 31, 2016

Star Trek Symphony

Recently, I had the pleasure of attending a symphony concert called Star Trek: The Ultimate Voyage. (NERD ALERT!!!) I tried to make myself look fancy and made my husband put on one of his new suits. He picked out his charcoal grey suit but didn't know what shirt to wear with it; I chose a white dress shirt for him and he whined and grumbled about it because he doesn't like white. Once he put on the shirt and suit together, he was pretty pleased with himself saying, "I am looking good, I look like James Bond!"  Whilst profusely rolling my eyes I thought to myself, "THIS IS WHY YOU SHOULD LISTEN TO ME ARGHGHGHGHGHGHGH." Anyway, I wore an open-backed black dress and a faux fur stole for extra fanciness. I had been looking for some nice Star Trek jewellery prior to the event but couldn't find anything I liked. I came across some earrings that reminded me of the Star Trek symbol so I opted for those instead. I really enjoyed the concert; it took me back to my days as a rather marginal flautist in the high school band. (Why does the word "flautist" make me laugh every time I type or say it??)


Purse: Vince Camuto, false lashes: Smoke and Mirrors Beauty, Lips: MAC Nightmoth Lip Pencil and Night Violet Mattene Lipstick, earrings: Le Chateau, MAC Mineralize blush in Two Virtues, Bourjois eyeshadow 13.

Dress and Stole: Le Chateau
Tights: H & M
Shoes: Jeffrey Campbell

Thank goodness for Le Chateau. Often, it is difficult for me to find a well-fitting dress for my body type. It has been especially difficult lately due to the particular cuts that are in style at the moment.  Le Chateau always stocks a wide variety of cuts in their dresses so I can always find something flattering. This dress I am wearing here has room in the chest and butt areas, it is not too tight against my stomach area, and it is cut to be smaller in the natural waist area which is perfect for my figure. Also, the dress has an open back with a nice drape of fabric and a BAND across the back so I can actually wear a bra! I always love open-backed dresses because I have a back tattoo but so many of them are unwearable for me as a bra cannot be worn with them.

Have you ever been to the symphony?

Tuesday, May 24, 2016


Here is a goth look on a Tuesday. I should have posted it on World Goth Day but there was too much working and not enough gothing going on.  


Lips: MAC Nightmoth lip pencil with Studded Kiss lipstick over top.

Hair flower: Random gift shop
Necklace: Made by me
Shrug: Local corset shop
Corset: It is terrible and flat-steel boned and I can't remember where it came from
Skirt: Aeternis (Diabolik in Montreal)
Tights: Ebay
Shoes: Jeffrey Campbell


Do you like to goth about? Do you like DIY accoutrements but lack the visual-spacial and/or fine motor skills to complete complex creative tasks? If you answered "yes" to any of the previous questions, then I have the perfect craft for you. Try making your own lace necklace. All that you must do is find a large piece of venice lace and gather a bunch of random beads, gems, and other embellishments. Proceed to hand sew (anyone can do it if I can) the aforementioned decorations to the lace. Then, sew a ribbon to either end so you can fasten it to yourself and VOILA! You have your very own large, eye-catching (hopefully) accessory. It's the kind of DIY project that is nearly impossible to F.U.B.A.R. and this is why I like it. 

Have you been doing any crafting lately?

Wednesday, May 11, 2016

Spiked Blazer

The weather here continues to violently fluctuate between summer heat and fall cold. What a weird spring! When it gets really hot out I can't stand it because I can't wear anything decent but it has made my garden look great! When it is cold out I can wear full on tights and boots and blazers which is nice. One of my favourite pieces in my closet is my spike-shouldered blazer. I wore it to go see the documentary Dark Star: H.R. Giger's World which was playing at an independent theater where I live. I paired the blazer with a really neat skirt I got from a local store. It is kind of like a pencil skirt with two long panels in the front and back. One can tie/tuck in the panels in many different ways to change up the skirt which is pretty cool.  


Kat Von D Lipstick in Rosary, earrings from Shades of Grey Boutique (local).

Blazer: Zara
Top: Le Chateau
Skirt: Workhall (local)
Tights: H & M
Boots: Guess


This morning I have some perennials to plant before I go to the complete and utter shit show work. It looks like it is going to be a good year for gardening! 

Tuesday, May 3, 2016

Random Semi-Spring Outfits

The weather around here is fluctuating wildly by the day. One day it will be warm enough for sandals, the next it will be freezing out. Sometimes it even fluctuates wildly by the hour; the other day when I got up I needed a light winter coat, then there was a quick thunderstom in the afternoon, and after that it got rather warm out. It is hard to know what to wear in these transitional times of the year. Here are a couple of random spring-ish outfits from LAST spring that I found hanging around on my computer.


Lemantula Designs earrings, Aldo Accessories necklace, and NARS Damned.

Top and Tights: H & M
Skirt: Bebe
Boots: Le Chateau


Necklace: Bunny Paige Jewelry
Top: Guess
Bracelets: Le Chateau
Skirt: Bebe
Tights: H & M
Shoes: Jeffrey Campbell

The pictured skirt is quite nice for this time of the year; it looks nice with tights and when it gets a bit warmer out it is long enough to wear on its own. I'll need to pull it from the depths of my closet soon!


How is your week going so far?

Sunday, May 1, 2016

The Flying Squirrel Dress

The little black dress, or LBD, if you will, is a closet staple for many.  I love having minimalist, black pieces that can be dressed up or down and paired with a variety of shoes and accessories. One such dress that resides in my closet is loose and drapey; when one holds one's arms out it looks kind of like a big square. It reminds me of a flying squirrel or something.

Thankfully, I do not often have any reason to stand as such when I am out in public as looking like a flying squirrel is less than flattering on most people, myself included.  The dress has great movement when you walk around and it has a very nice drape. I wore this particular outfit to go out to a nice restaurant. I was anticipating a quiet evening; however, we were seated next to a large and very intoxicated group. It was somewhat amusing until they became so loud you couldn't even carry on a conversation. Note to self: do not go out for dinner during office Christmas party season. 


Old bangles I found in my closet, Hillberg and Berk earrings, H&M necklace.

Lip Gloss: OCC Stained Gloss in Little Black Dress
Dress: Workhall (Local)
Tights: H&M
Shoes: Jennifer Chou


Do you have any LBD'S?