A Closeted Goth Girl Trying to Make it in the Professional World

Sunday, August 27, 2017

Darkling Tag

Time to play tag!

 I was tagged by Ra.....I am always in awe of her unique personal style and gorgeous photographs. The questions were provided by Graveyard Kittens.

Simple Questions
What is your favorite candle scent?
I DO NOT BURN CANDLES. I am terrified that I would forget to blow one out and burn down my house!

Do you have a favorite book?
I have a lot of favourite books but if I must pick one I'll pick Mindhunter by John Douglas and Mark Olshaker.

Are you a tea or coffee person?

Coffee in the morning, decaf herbal tea at night (I'm getting old, I can't handle caffeine in the evenings anymore lol)

What's your favourite perfume/cologne?
It varies. Right now it's Orange Sanguine by Atelier Cologne.

Do you have a celebrity crush?

I don't eyeball celebrities that much....except for Alexander Skarsgård.

If you could change your name to a stereotypical 90s/2000s gothy name, what it would be?

Did people actually do this??? I missed out! Scarlet Wynter.

What are your top three tips for surviving hot weather while black clad?

1) Do not attend any irritating summer outdoor festival type things. 
2) Avoid patios. 
3) If you must go out wear drapey, flowy clothing with ventilation.

What song will always make you happy (doesn’t have to be a goth band)? 
"Until the End of the World" by Apoptygma Berzerk. It is my favourite club dancing song and even though it sounds upbeat, it is actually a very sad song. Watch the video for some super 2002 fashionz.

Are you active in the arts (ex. play an instrument, paint, write, etc)?
Uh, I write really sh*ttily on this blog.....I used to play the piano and the flute, like, 16 years ago......yeah. I am not artsy at all, I sew begrudgingly when I have to but suck at it and I sometimes craft accessories when I have time. I guess I have taken up silversmithing recently........

What is your number one non-gothy hobby?

Thought Provokers

If you could be a supernatural creature, what would it be and why?
Can I be like a mermaid or a fairy or something? It would be fun to fly and swim around and be sparkly and pretty. 

What horror monster super-powers would you have?

Immortality so I can see how the world finally ends one day.

Do you feel confident or comfortable interacting with other goths or gothy people (online or irl)? Why or why not?
Yes, I find that the goths are a pretty accepting group of people for the most part.

Which is more important for a look: great hair or great makeup?
MAKEUP. For me, anyways. My hair always sucks, I am not really a hair person but my makeup must be done!!!

Is there something you wish there was more of in your subculture?
Not really.

Care to share an embarassing story related to your "darkliness"?

Back in approximately 2004, my best friend and I went to Toronto to see Nine Inch Nails. We were wearing some form of dark clothing and boots. We were going into a Subway to get some lunch when an older couple came up behind us. Being polite young ladies, we held the door for them and let them go in ahead of us. Upon entering the restaurant, the woman turns to her husband and yells, "WHY DID YOU LET THOSE HOOKERS HOLD THE DOOR FOR US??!?!?"  WELL SORRY FOR BEING POLITE!!!! I actually wasn't that embarrassed (I thought it was funny as hell) but if one had enough shame to dress properly in public, one might find such a thing to be embarrassing. 

How are you at DIY?
Sh*tty. There is always much swearing, weeping, and gnashing of teeth when I try to make anything.

Confessional (aka True or False)

I love watching cheesy romance films.

I always remember to wash off my makeup at night.
F**K YES my skin is bad enough already 

I sleep with plushies.
I sleep with a 15 pound cat, does that count?

I wear non-black pyjamas most nights.

Yes, I always pick out the ugliest P.J. pants that I can find and wear them with ratty old t-shirts. I am not very glamourous when it comes to sleepwear.

I think Andrew Eldritch is overrated.
I am indifferent towards Andrew Eldritch.

I don’t like vampires.

True but I'll make an exception for this one:

God, this was the stupidest show ever.
I don’t like clubs.
FALSE. They are the one place that I can dress like a complete ass and get away with it!

I don’t enjoy graveyards.

Depends why I'm there, I guess....

I'd sooner faint than pet a spider.

I don’t like haunted houses.
TRUE!!!! Being stuck in a dark, claustrophobic area with a bunch of people I don't know in my personal space = TERRIFYING!!

I’ve never read Dracula.

I think “Bela Lugosi’s Dead” is a long and boring song.
Kind of but it's a classic.

I shall tag 2 ladies with sewing prowess...........Mindless Indulgence and Madame Mari Mortem.


  1. Don't you make cyber dreads? That's pretty awesome DIY, right? Plus they make your hair look crazy awesome, and consequently finish off your outfits incredibly... there, I rebutted two of your points haha!
    Also makeup is totally an art form. Hell I can't do it.

    Thanks for the tag =D

  2. What? I thought your DIYs were great! You should post some of your metalsmithing one of these days?